Story Found By: ANOnym 1311 Days ago
Category: Sphinn Zone
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Sigh. I didnt want to desphinn or anything, and due respect to both Michaels... but this kind of thing is exactly what we dont need in our industry. Just my 2c.
Ok, Burgo and Halfdeck, I wasnt engaging in any kind of flame war. Michael didnt call me a dumbass or say that I didnt know what I was talking about, or that I was an jerk... he didnt post opinions of me, which is something he would of course have a right to do. What he *did* do is outright lie, claiming that I did things that simply never happened. All I did was to simply post links and quotes showing what was actually said.And believe it or not, that is a valuable anti-lesson in reputation management online. This actually happens quite a bit. Anyone ever hear of Starposition/Robert Sexton?
Save the flamewar bs for your own site unless its good. This stuff is just crap and irrelevent to everyone but the parties involved. For a good example of sphinn worthy flamewars read DaveNs blog or some old threadwatch stuff.
Btw... his post with the flame about me (which was an actual flame) is sitting on the front page.
So pointing out that someone lied is now flaming? When did that happen? Are we really so afraid of conflict that we cant point out when someone is wrong (or outright lies)?Also, as mvandemar points out, the post where Michael takes the shot at mvand is sitting on the front page. I assume everyone that desphunn this post also desphunn that one? If not, I think thats a bit unfair.
If I had read it I would of. Personally I dont care if flames are posted on here with one caveat. It should be entertaining or involving someone notable.
Webprof, heres my comment on the thread for the attack post: http://sphinn.com/story/57359#c47153You can read the piece that Mvand is responding to through that link as well. The post went hot here on sphinn thanks in part to the likes of HalfDeck sphinning it despite a blatant flame thrown in at the end.Now, when the person attack responds (with direct contradicting quotes from his attacker) its labled by some people as a "flame war"? Give me a break.
So let me get this right. If I create an experiment, get some results, but then destroy the experiment (in this case removing the links) and then write up about it, and in the write up flame someone, thats OK. But if I dont hide my flame behind an experiment that cannot be confirmed or refuted because its gone now, then thats not OK?Flame wars are not usually a communitys problem, but in this case the Sphinn community made a flame go popular. That makes it Sphinns problem and so doesnt deserve a desphinn.
"What he *did* do is outright lie, claiming that I did things that simply never happened."Ok, even if he lied, you could have debunked his claims without getting personal and playing this out in public - but you didnt. This post hurt your rep instead of bolstering it and having this sit on the front page will only make you look bad."Btw... his post with the flame about me (which was an actual flame) is sitting on the front page."Unless you got baby skin thats not a real flame. He just said you flamed him multiple times (big deal).Sure, I understand you defending yourself but some things you say in the deleted comment do cross the line. If you think building negative karma does your rep any good, go ahead, encourage more people to sphinn this up to the front page.
can we just get back to the SEO ?
Essentially yes because the other sphinn ( which I havent read other than the sphinn blurb) is based on the premise of an experiment not a flame. Sphinning a blatant flame holds the sphinn to a different set of merits... things like: are the people important enough for me to read it? Is the flame entertaining? Do I give a damn about these people? Had the other sphinn been entitled "person XXX is an idiot" AND I had noticed it I would have desphunn that to. OR had this sphinn been under the premise of "Why MM experiment is broken" then I would have not even bothered to even notice it to desphinn it. Basically the set of criteria people use to judge the worthiness of a sphinn is determined by how you frame the issue presented.
the ever enigmatic Lisa once said something like such;Never speak badly or others in blog postsNever respond to those that speak badly of youAs a seasoned ranting veteren, I have learned to take this to heart the last while. I have no interest in dumping on peeps and will not respond in kind - but thats just me.As for what doesnt belong on Sphinn is another thing... there have been plenty of asides and personal nature posts here (both positive and negative). To those that want the Web Marketing Times you might want to consider that this is SOCIAL media and that kind of stuff is not only entertaining, but often very SOCIAL.... he he...
Dude, reputation management IS part of the marketing industry, and trying to counter verifiable facts is not the way to go about it. Youre continuing to call it a flame does not make it so. Get over it already.
"Youre continuing to call it a flame does not make it so."Funny, thats what I just told you. You and your cheerleaders are the ones making a raucus over this little post, not me; now get back to work.
As Ive said elsewhere already: I expected nothing less from Smackdown. Its the Private Eye of blogs (only withouy the made-up bits ;)).This is about debunking, getting rid of the FUD. Theres too much FUD online... Personal FUD needs personal debunking. After that, people can all go out and grab a beer together.
people are free to indulge in flame wars and character assassinations but do me a favor and keep it to yourself and off the front page of sphinn
While I enjoy a flamewar as much as the next person (no, not really), Sphinn is supposed to be about how to be a good internet marketer. Desphunn for being unhelpful and too lame for Sphinn.
Keep your personal problems and flame wars on your own site.
Welcome to the Whine Cooler. If I wanted to see petty bickering and back-biting Id have kids.
If you hadnt said here that you had called each other names, I would never have known it had happened... that would have been just fine.